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Should You Choose a Female Personal Trainer?

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The short answer

Choose a female personal trainer if it is what lets you start and keep training: at home alone, in pregnancy or after birth, or for religious or cultural reasons.

  • Gender does not predict coaching quality, and a 2013 study of 402 students found no preference for either gender, though both sexes said an opposite-gender trainer might make it harder to concentrate.
  • Otherwise choose on certification and experience with your goal.

Written by the Fit Titans coaching team. Edited by Theon. How we write guides

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On this page (5)
  1. 1. Does a personal trainer's gender matter? What the research says
  2. 2. When does a coach's gender genuinely matter?
  3. 3. How do comfort and privacy change a session?
  4. 4. When does it not matter?
  5. 5. What should you check on any coach's profile?

Key facts

  • Fisher, Platts and Stopforth (2013): 402 undergraduates showed no preference for a personal trainer's gender
  • The same study: both men and women said an opposite-gender trainer might make it harder to concentrate
  • Sport England (2015): a fear of judgement on appearance, ability or how they spend time on themselves puts women off exercising
  • Most useful when training alone at home, in pregnancy or postpartum, or for religious or cultural reasons

Does a personal trainer's gender matter? What the research says

Less than people expect, and the evidence is thin. The real variable is comfort, not competence. Comfort decides whether you turn up, and a coach you are at ease with removes some of the fear of judgement that puts women off.

Neither men nor women showed a preference for the trainer's gender. Both said a trainer of the opposite gender might make it harder to concentrate.

That 2013 study in the International Journal of Exercise Science is small, and students rating trainers they had not met says little about a mother of two training at home.

Sport England's This Girl Can research, at the campaign launch in January 2015, found a fear of judgement, on appearance, ability or how they chose to spend time on themselves, puts women off exercising.

When does a coach's gender genuinely matter?

It matters when it changes whether you train. If you would not let a man into your flat while you are alone, would not discuss leaking or a caesarean scar with him, or your faith or family set the rule, a female coach is the difference between starting and not.

  1. 01Home aloneA stranger in your living room at 7am is a real consideration. A female coach removes it for many women.
  2. 02Prenatal and postnatalPelvic floors, bleeding and scars come up, and many mums find that easier with a woman.
  3. 03Faith or cultureA straightforward requirement, and reason enough on its own.
  4. 04Hands-on cueingCoaching sometimes means adjusting your hip or shoulder. Would you only accept that from a woman? Reason enough.
  5. 05Past experienceA male coach or a gym floor put you off before? Do not relitigate it. Pick what lets you start.
  6. 06Booking for someone elseFor a wife, a mother or a teenage daughter, her comfort is the whole question. She has not chosen the coach.

How do comfort and privacy change a session?

Most of the privacy comes from the venue, not the coach: a session at home or in a condo gym has no audience, whoever coaches it. What a female coach adds is the conversation.

The venue: no audience

  • A short assessment on the first visit
  • A plan built around your space: an HDB living room, a condo gym with one rack or the park connector downstairs
  • MCST limits guest trainers? The session moves into your unit

A female coach: the conversation

  • Periods, pelvic floor, a scar or a changing body are easier for many women to raise with another woman
  • She can only plan around what you tell her

When does it not matter?

Gender does not predict coaching quality. A male coach with a prenatal qualification and years of postnatal clients will serve you better than a female coach who has never trained a mum, and a female coach who specialises in powerlifting will not automatically be gentler or more patient than a male one.

Menopause, fat loss, strength and IPPT prep are all coached well by both. If your reason for wanting a woman is an assumption about style rather than comfort, ask about the coach's actual experience with your goal instead. You may find the right person is not who you expected.

Salam, a Fit Titans coach, with a client
Salam with a client, in a real session. See Salam's profile

What should you check on any coach's profile?

Whatever the coach's gender, check the same four things, then treat the first session as the real test. Choosing a personal trainer goes deeper on the questions to ask.

Checking any coach, from the profile to the first months
  1. Before you bookCertificationNamed and checkable: NCSF, ACE, ISSA, IFPA, NASM, NSCA, ACSM, FISAF, WSQ or a sports-science diploma or degree. Every Fit Titans coach publishes theirs.
  2. Before you bookSpecialty, rate, safetyA specialty that matches your goal, not a list of everything. A published rate. A prenatal coach mentions clearance without being asked.
  3. First sessionThe real testDoes she ask about injuries, sleep and schedule before packs, and explain where she would start you and why?
  4. Next three monthsComfort at homeWould you be comfortable with her in your flat at 7am?

Gender helps with that last question, and a session answers it faster than any profile.

Want a woman? Female personal trainers in Singapore covers how to ask, what our women coaches charge and where they train. Strength goal? Strength training for women is the next read.

After a birth? Postnatal personal training names the women coaches who list pre or postnatal training, their rates and when to start.

Questions.

Should I choose a female personal trainer?

Choose one if it is what lets you start and keep training, for example when you train alone at home, are pregnant or postnatal, or have religious or cultural reasons. If comfort is not the issue, choose on certification and experience with your goal, because gender does not predict coaching quality.

Does a personal trainer's gender affect results?

There is little evidence that it does. Results come from the programme and whether you keep turning up. A 2013 study of 402 students found no preference for either gender of trainer, though both sexes said an opposite-gender trainer might make it harder to concentrate. If a woman makes you more comfortable and consistent, that is a real reason.

Is a female trainer better for weight loss or toning?

Not because of gender. Fat loss and strength results come from the programme, the nutrition coaching and whether you keep turning up. Choose a female coach if it makes you more comfortable and consistent. Choose on experience with your goal otherwise. Both are valid reasons, but they are different reasons.

Are female trainers as qualified as male trainers?

Yes. Each coach's certifications are listed on their profile, whatever their gender, so you can check them before you book. Requesting a woman does not mean choosing from a less-qualified list.

About this guide

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Terms used

Condo gym:
The shared gym in a private condominium, run by the building's management.

Sources

General information, not medical advice.

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