When you can actually start
In Singapore the default milestone is the six-week postnatal review with your OB or GP. That's a floor, not a target: a straightforward vaginal birth might be cleared at six weeks, while a caesarean, a third-degree tear or significant blood loss often means eight to twelve weeks before loaded training makes sense. Ask specifically about lifting and impact, not just "can I exercise" — the answers are different.
- Bleeding has stopped and you're not in pain at rest.
- You've had your postnatal review and been cleared for exercise, including lifting.
- No heaviness or dragging in the pelvis when you're on your feet all day.
- Scar is healed (caesarean) and not painful to touch or move through.
What you can do before clearance
The first six weeks are not nothing. They're where you rebuild the connection between breath, deep core and pelvic floor — the thing everything else gets loaded on top of. None of this is strenuous and all of it can be done one-handed while feeding.
- Diaphragmatic breathing: ribs expand on the inhale, gentle pelvic-floor lift on the exhale.
- Pelvic-floor contractions: both quick lifts and longer holds, several short sessions a day.
- Walking: start at ten minutes and build. In this climate, go early or late and stay in shade.
- Posture work: feeding and carrying pull you forward all day; gentle thoracic opening helps.
The order to rebuild in
| Phase | Roughly when | Focus |
|---|---|---|
| Reconnect | Weeks 0-6 | Breathing, pelvic floor, walking, posture |
| Rebuild | Weeks 6-12 | Bodyweight strength, glutes, rows, carries, sled/band work |
| Reload | Months 3-6 | Progressive loading — squats, hinges, presses, pull-ups |
| Return | Month 6+ | Impact, running, jumping — once symptom-free under load |
Impact comes last for a reason. Running with an under-prepared pelvic floor is the single most common way mums end up with leaking that persists for years. If you want to run again, and plenty of our clients do, build the strength base first and the running comes back quickly.
Diastasis recti, without the panic
Almost every woman has some abdominal separation at the end of pregnancy — it's how the body makes room. Most of it closes on its own in the first few months. What matters is not the gap width but whether you can generate tension across it: can you brace without the midline doming or coning outward?
- Check it yourself: lying on your back, fingers just above the navel, lift your head. Feel for the gap and, more importantly, whether it domes.
- Train tension, not avoidance: dead bugs, pallof presses, carries and breathing under load all build the wall back.
- Regress what domes: if a movement makes the midline cone, it's too much for now, not forbidden forever.
- Get assessed if it hasn't improved by three months, or if you have back pain or a bulge — that's a physio referral, not a coaching problem.
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Pelvic floor and leaking
Leaking a little when you sneeze, jump or lift heavy is extremely common postnatally and extremely treatable. It is not the price of having children. Singapore has women's health physiotherapists at KKH, NUH and in private practice; if you're leaking, feeling heaviness, or something doesn't feel right, that referral should come before a training programme. We coach around whatever they advise, and we'll happily work alongside them.
Losing the baby weight, sanely
The honest answer: it takes longer than social media suggests, and aggressive dieting while breastfeeding and sleep-deprived tends to backfire. A modest calorie deficit with high protein, plus strength training to hold onto muscle, is the approach that works without wrecking your recovery or your milk supply. Our fat-loss coaching follows the same principles, and the hawker eating guide covers how to do it on Singapore food.
Doing this in Singapore
The practical barrier for most new mums isn't motivation, it's logistics — you can't leave a newborn to drive to a gym for a 45-minute session. That's the whole reason we train at home: your coach comes to your flat or condo gym, works around the nap, and packs up. If you'd prefer a woman, ask and we'll match you with one; see female personal training or the full prenatal and postnatal service.